This has several levels of unbelievable irony and coincidence and so I simply must write of it…
I have a guy “friend” whom is fondly referred to in my house as Hottie McHotstuff. He’s a very sexually appealing 24 year old guy (boy?), with whom I had a night (umm…or two…?) of wild abandon this past winter. He’s way too young for me and our connection was truly a matter of several simultaneously serendipitous events. This is not a common theme or occurrence for me… so this guy, this experience, in itself is special in its own right.
how I feel around McH...
McHotstuff is friends with a girlfriend of mine. We all were out dancing and drinking together one memorable evening awhile back. I’m not going to pretend I hadn’t noticed him at all. In fact, I couldn’t help but to notice him and in the beginning of the evening prior to drinking like fish and group-dancing like sexually charged beasts, we had a delightful conversation. I enjoyed this, but immediately classified it off as just a nice conversation with an intelligent, sweet, and too-young guy.
So imagine my surprise a few hours later when our mutual friend pulls me aside and says, “J is sooooo in to you girl.” What? Are you kiddin’ me? That hot young boy? …Is way into late 30-ish, chronically-broken-hearted-ME? Whoaa… I laughed this off, took it as quite a compliment, and continued on as it was…having a great time with a fun group of friends. She takes me aside again and says, Kay, I know sexual flings aren’t your thing, but I’m telling you, you really should try it with J. I’ve never had sex with him, but another friend of mine did awhile back and she raved for months about how unbelievably effin’ fantastic he is.
Yeah, not usually my thing, but I’ll tell you, I’ve been suffering (literally) from a broken heart for years(yes, years) and with this blatant encouragement combined with my ongoing level of pain and suffering for so long, I opted to act on this. I won’t get into the crude details here, but suffice to say…ummm..yup….OMFG…was worth every bit of it! And I’ve no regrets, then or now… In fact, McH and I got together again on a less drunken evening merely because I wanted to experience this guy with a totally clear head! This was very liberating to me sexually and emotionally…..I’m indebted to McH for reasons he’ll never even know!
McH and I did not become BFF’s or anything, but over the past 8 months or so, we have developed a great friendship…one that I really believe is a rare friendship with extreme sexual attraction thing. Something I did not believe could exist prior to this. I have genuinely fond and caring feelings for the guy, as well as a crazy sexual desire for him. And he feels the same. It’s truly a lovely phenomenon!
Coincidence: After living his entire life in this small-Michigan town we lived in and me having lived there for 13 years, 3 days before I moved to Nevada, McH moved out west as well. So he just happens to be my geographically closest “friend” from back home, although he is still 10-12 hours’ drive from me. We text and talk fairly regularly. He’s planning to visit Vegas at some point fairly soon. Needless to say, I’m very much looking forward to that;-P
Here is the irony: We have been having a text conversation over the past few days regarding my ex (a dear friend ever since our divorce 13 years ago) being a real jerk since the moment I arrived here. Excerpt as follows:
Me: I soooo wish you were here right now! (this I texted to him the night after the near violation of my no-no square…yeah, I was super-duper scared and lonely)
Me (the next day…kind of embarrassed at how that late-night text probably came across): Sucks sometimes not really knowing any1 here…wish u were a lil closer at least…hope ur doing great tho…xoxo
McH: I wish I was too..ya’ll should’ve came to Denver it’s truly amazing
Me: I’m so glad u like it! Vegas is pretty great too..just wish I knew some1 here tho…but I’m meeting ppl just takes time I suppose…
Mc H:Doesn’t ur husband live out there or x husband?
Me: Yup he lives here..n we’ve been best friends since the divorce but now that he has the kids n me out here hes bein a major ass 2me…I shoulda known better!
McH(texted this morning): Dude that sucks I wish I could help
Me: No worries I’m dealing w/it..it’s just kinda sad n makes me xtra miss havin my friends around 2have fun w/…ur such a gem J… thank u tho:-):-)
McH: Well, you’re one of the greatest ppl I know. I’m not gonna lie
Me(touched beyond reason here): J..ur so lucky ur so far or id jump u right now just 4sayin that 2meJ other than my ex n some pervs leering @me like they wanna eat me alive its been awhile since any1 said anything kind 2me…I just adore u..im so lucky ur my friend n ur only 10 hours away!! :-)xoxo:-)
McH: yeah, I’m gonna come 2 Vegas once I get the cash. And u also r a great friend 2have.
AND *RIGHT HERE* IS WHEN THE UNBELIEVABLE HAPPENS:
McH: Do you have a camera phone?
OMFG!!!! I have been intimate with McH, so this does not bother me at ALL in that way. He’s not at all out of line and I’d share any picture I might ever have of myself with this gem of a guy… But with consideration of my past few weeks ranting about “more cell pics” and my impending date tonight with “more-cell-pics-M”….
ARE YOU KIDDIN’ ME?? What the hell? What are the odds of this crazy-ass timed request? Is this a seemingly random and unexpected thing being thrown at me to put a brand new perspective on my current dilemma/debate regarding my upcoming date with M????
I guess this is irrefutable proof that *any* guy in the world does, in fact, just want more cell phone pics…maybe I’m being a little harsh on M?